Can you see the resemblance between me and my mother?

My first thought yesterday, June 1st, was about my mother because that would have been her 106th birthday.  I loved my mom so very much and still miss her today. She was a grand lady; loved her family; enjoyed cooking for us (she was a great cook), and a good example of a Godly woman.  For all that, I am grateful.

She was always very hospitable when we had company.  She made each guest feel comfortable and welcome in our home, whether their visit was in answer to an invitation or they just dropped by for a visit.  In this day with such busy schedules we  think we have to make appointments to stop by and see our friends or even our families.  I do believe something is lost in that formality.

I learned a lot about enjoying those who came to our home.  All were different and we were taught to look for the good in everyone, to overlook their faults and try to learn the good that each had to offer.  No matter who a person is or where they are from, if you look for the good in them, you will find it.   If you listen to what they say you can learn from their mistakes and victories.

I am quite sure that some of my decisions as a young adult stemmed from the insight I had gained while listening to those conversations around the kitchen table.  It is sad that so many families today don’t take the time to just sit and talk and visit with one another.  We are so busy on our tablets, our phones, and the TV to converse with those right there in the same room.

I challenge you to take time to make memories with your family and friends.  That’s what those calendars are for on our phones; to make appointments.  We schedule times for everything, so schedule some time for your family.  Enjoy each other in making memories and laugh together.  Make plans with your family to go to the park and go hiking, go bowling, visit the zoo or a museum.  Taking a sight-seeing trip and enjoy the scenery.  Sing songs together rather than each having their music plugged into the ears.  Get the camera out and take pictures and make photo albums.  Stop for an ice cream cone, or whatever you’d like to eat to end your day of celebration with your family.

Honor one another with love, kindness, respect, and with your time and presence.  It will bring joy and unity to your home and family.

Include God in those times too. He created this beautiful world for you and He enjoys blessing you.  He has a sense of humor. He enjoys a good conversation. Set your goal on honoring Him in all that you do.  Remember Jesus is our best example of how we are to live.  Allow the love of God to live through you, so others can see His resemblance in you.

Matthew 5:16  Let your light shine before others, do good works and glorify your Father in Heaven.  In other words be a blessing.